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A Cupcake Caper

October 19, 2012 by Amelia

Thank you all so much for your wonderful suggestions for celebrating the milestone of turning in the final book edits. I loved hearing how you celebrate special events in your lives. I am tucking away all of your ideas for future use!

I had a hard time choosing a winner, so I picked two! I don’t “get out” much, and Andrew’s suggestion for a coffee shop hop sounded so fun. I’ve been wanting to visit a couple hip coffee shops in town.  I’ll be sure to report how the adventure goes!

The second winner is Caye for her suggestion of starting a rock collection and writing the significant moments on them. This reminded me of the passages in the Old Testament (like) where God instructed the Israelites to build a memorial out of stones so every time they would see it they might remember His great acts on their behalf. Congratulations to you both!

I also asked the kids how they thought we should celebrate. Little Miss had a fantastic idea.

Her eyes lit up and she bounced in her seat as she said, “We should bake cupcakes and give them to the neighbors!”

We have great neighbors. Over the past year while I’ve been working on this project, they’ve watched me stumble to the bus stop and seen my light burning late at night. They’ve been encouraging all along. And when Kedron was in the hospital a couple weeks ago, they reached out offering to help and checked up on him when he returned home.

Yes, we have much to celebrate in our neighbors.

But of course, no adventure is without mishaps in our house. We went to the store right away and she chose a yellow cake mix . Then we got the idea to make the cupcakes look like the little cupcakes on the book cover. So we tossed some chocolate frosting and little maraschino cherries into the cart too.

Back home in the kitchen, I divided the duties evenly between Little Miss and T-Rex (heaven forbid she gets to mix 3 things in the bowl and he only gets 2!). The mixer was whirring. The oven beeped that it was preheated. I sprayed the mini muffin tins. All tasks were running smoothly. Then tragedy struck. As we were pouring slopping the cake mix into the pan, I noticed a clump of gray in the mix. I pulled it out, and inspected the small strip of gray. Then I found another piece of gray. And another.

That’s when I realized I let T-Rex dump the cake mix into the mixer without inspecting the bowl first. My mixer sits on the corner of my most used counter. I’m scared to think what might have been in that bowl. Potato peels from dinner prep, dust from the cabinets above, or some random item that fell out of the cupboard overhead.

T-Rex looked up at me and with a finger holding an unidentified gray object dripping with yellow cake mix said, “It kind of looks like fuzzies from the box!”

I sighed and told the kids, “We need to dump this and start over.”

“But we’ll have to go back to the store for another cake mix,” Little Miss said.

My shoulders slumped as my energy for this celebration gig waned. “Yup.” I walked to the sink and poured the clumpy cake mix down the drain.

After dinner we made a second trip to the grocery store for another box of cake mix. This time, I thoroughly washed and inspected the bowl and muffin pan and all utensils.

By the time we finished the second cupcake batch, it was late and raining. In fact, over the past couple days the clouds that were dehydrated all summer long have overflowed.

So our delivery had to wait a day, but no rain would ruin our parade!

We rang the first doorbell, and the kids suffered a sudden attack of shyness hid behind my back. The neighbors came to the door and I announced that we had baked cupcakes and would like to share. And seriously, who could turn down mini cupcakes from these two cuties? The kids passed a paper plate through the doorway and with surprised smiles the neighbors filled the plate. After we walked down the sidewalk from the first house T-Rex said, “You forgot to tell them why we’re celebrating! You have to tell them about your book!”

Melt. My. Heart.

“Yeah, you have to tell them that these look like the cupcakes on the cover” Little Miss chimed in.

I was happy just to share cupcakes and smiles. But the kids pushed me to explain why at every house.

My kids know how to celebrate. I’m learning from them.

And I have a few more cupcakes to ice. We ran out of chocolate frosting.

Filed Under: Coffee Break, Doing Life Together, Family, Little Miss Sunshine, T-Rex Tagged With: celebrating, community, cupcakes, family, friendship

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  1. Jessie says

    October 19, 2012 at 9:03 am

    Sounds like something they’ll remember, how sweet.

    • Amelia says

      October 22, 2012 at 9:17 pm

      Thanks Jessie! They had a lot of fun. So did I!

  2. caye says

    October 19, 2012 at 10:29 am

    I am so honored that you chose me. I love that you picked up the theme of “building an altar”. I think it is Biblical to make ways to remember God’s faithfulness and also link something, in our physical world, to those memories. I actually mark on one side of the stone and then turn them over so they can sit in our living room and look all earthy as decorations. When people comment on them I flip them over and tell a story!

    I also want to commend you on your mother hood. I have no idea how you are disciplined to find time to write as a Mom but it inspires me. It shows so much about what you are teaching them that they want to “give” in order to “celebrate”. What a challenge they are to us to remember that giving is the greatest way to receive. 🙂

    • Amelia says

      October 22, 2012 at 9:18 pm

      Yes Caye, love the theme of building an altar! Great ideas! Thank you for the motherhood compliments. I’m not sure I can take much credit. They have very sweet and sensitive spirits! I try to cultivate their giving hearts whenever I can!

  3. jengusey says

    October 19, 2012 at 11:00 am

    How fun!

  4. Brenda yoder says

    October 20, 2012 at 5:49 am

    It’s always a treasure when our kids remind us of reasons to celebrate. It puts winds in our sails. It makes us strong. What a beautiful model you gave the kids as you invited them to join you in celebrating. Beautiful, beautiful cupcakes, kids, and mom!

    • Amelia says

      October 22, 2012 at 9:19 pm

      Thanks Brenda! They remind me to celebrate and give without reservations!

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    October 19, 2012 at 10:35 am

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  2. Building an Altar « Caye VanZandt says:
    October 19, 2012 at 12:17 pm

    […] Today was a reminder of that for me.  I have recently connected with some amazing and inspiring writers.  I am beginning the adventure of putting some of my writing out there for other’s to read.  I awoke to find a message on my facebook about how I had won a copy of a book from a new friend.  She had asked for ways “we celebrated” little accomplishments in our lives. http://www.ameliarhodes.com/2012/10/19/a-cupcake-caper/ […]

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